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Manifesting love in your life starts with a single thought.
Listen, if you sit around thinking about how lonely you are and why others seem to be so lucky to have someone in their life, then you are going to get more of it.
Why not change your thinking. Instead, think about your ideal mate. Feel them. Imagine spending every waking, and sleeping moment with them.
Don’t think about your love life in a negative fashion. Do this day in and day out and suddenly your demeanor starts to change.
In this article, I’ll look at five ways to start manifesting love in your life. The information I’m sharing is collated from the thoughts of several experts I’ve interviewed over the years.
The 5 Steps To Manifesting Love
Here are the top five ways to manifesting love in your life.
Decide what it is you want from love in your life.
Give this plenty of thought. Who is your ideal lover?
Decide what type of person you want to be your long time partner and lover.
Think about everything you would like in a man or woman. Be specific.
For example: “I want my future husband to be tall, handsome, intelligent, funny, caring, kind, generous, romantic, adventurous, loyal, honest, trustworthy, respectful, understanding, patient, supportive, considerate, gentle, sensitive, sexy, passionate, affectionate, fun-loving, faithful, protective, reliable, responsible, ambitious, successful, athletic, healthy, wealthy, educated, spiritual, creative, artistic, intellectual, humble, strong, courageous, masculine, feminine, etc.”
You may find it difficult to come up with such a list. That’s okay. Just write down whatever comes to mind.
Don’t worry about whether it makes sense or not. We’re here to help each other remember our dreams.
Once you’ve written down your dream list, take some time to review it.
Look through it carefully. Make sure nothing has been left off. Are there any words missing? Can anything be improved upon? Does something need changing?
Once you’ve done this, read through the list again. Take note of any changes you might wish to make.
Now, go ahead and ask yourself this question…am I ready to receive the love I deserve?
Manifesting Love By Visualizing Your Love Life
How am I going to let myself experience the love I want?
By visualizing, I mean imagining yourself as being loved by another person.
You can do this while lying down or sitting up. It doesn’t matter where you visualize because what matters most is, that you feel good when doing it.
When you imagine yourself loving somebody else, you will begin to attract people into your life who share similar qualities to those you desire for yourself.
This means they must also want to be loved too. If you don’t believe me, try it right now!
Close your eyes and picture yourself feeling happy and secure.
Now, see yourself surrounded by other people who make you feel just like that.
See yourself smiling and laughing. Notice all these things happening around you.
Then notice one thing…who is there? Who is looking back at you? Is it someone you know well?
Someone you would really enjoy having in your life? Or maybe even someone you haven’t met yet but could easily become friends with?
When you close your eyes and focus on your desired outcome, you are creating an energetic blueprint for success.
As long as you keep focusing on your vision, you will continue attracting positive experiences towards you. Don’t overthink this but just follow the process.
Be Love And Feel Love
Sounds weird but feeling as if you are already living your love life is crucial. Be. Do. Have. It’s a classic law of attraction tool.
Act as if your dream lover is already in your life. Imagine how wonderful he or she feels when you touch them.
Picture him or her kissing you passionately. Hear his or her voice calling out your name.
Smell their scent filling your nostrils. Taste her lips against yours. Touch his or her hands caressing your body. Experience every detail of being in love with your beloved.
If you can do this exercise consistently, over time you’ll start to feel more confident, happier, healthier, wealthier, sexier, smarter, stronger, fitter, younger, better looking, taller, skinnier, richer, wiser, and so much more than before.
The point is…you’re beginning to live your dream love life.
Be Grateful For Love In Your Life
Gratitude changes everything. In fact, gratitude has been proven to increase happiness levels by forty per cent.
Feel grateful for having love in your life. Feel grateful for the person who is the lover in your life.
Gratitude helps us see things from another perspective. When we think positively, we become optimistic. Optimism leads to feelings of joy and contentment which then attracts more good into our lives.
Manifesting Love Means Allowing Love Into Your Life
What? What do you mean allow love into your life. All I want to do is learn the secret to manifesting love in my life.
Again, sounds a little strange but you need to allow the love into your life. No, you really need to allow it.
You have to open yourself up to receiving that love. If you don’t believe the person you’re manifesting in your mind is your real love then they won’t show up.
So, stop thinking negatively about yourself. Stop worrying about all the reasons why you aren’t worthy of love. Start believing that you ARE deserving of love.
Believe that you are lovable just because you exist. Allow others to give you love. Let people know you care about them. Give compliments where appropriate. Smile at strangers. Say hello to friends. Show interest in those around you.
The more you practice these three steps, the easier it becomes.
Love Is A Choice
It’s about making choices. Now, we’d like to talk about one very important choice – the decision to choose love.
There are many ways to define love. Some say true love exists only between a man and woman.
Others claim that marriage is the ultimate expression of love. Still others argue that love should never end.
But regardless of how you view love, the bottom line is simple: Love is a choice.
When you decide to love, you set an intention to attract love into your life.
This means choosing to focus on positive thoughts and actions rather than negative ones.
By focusing on the positives, you create a powerful energy field that draws love towards you. As soon as you decide to love, the universe responds accordingly.
How Much Time Should You Spend Thinking About Manifesting Love?
This one takes practice. Start small. Set aside five minutes at first. Then set aside ten minutes.
After awhile, work your way up to twenty minutes. Eventually, you should be able to devote up to thirty minutes to thinking about manifesting love.
And what will happen next?
After spending 30 minutes meditating on the subject of “how to attract love”, you will notice that thoughts about your loved ones begin to fill your head. They will appear in different forms.
You know the saying. It won’t happen overnight but it will happen.
The key with manifesting love with law of attraction principles is being patient. You need to be consistent every day practicing these principles.
I hope you attract your true love. Leave a comment below when they come into your life.